Anal Sex

Anal sex polarises like almost no other practice. Some are curious, some uncertain, others have long discovered it for themselves. They all share one thing: anyone who prepares and talks openly has a good chance of an intense experience. On Gingr you'll find escorts across Switzerland who deliberately keep anal sex in their repertoire – passive as well as active, from a careful first try to the king's discipline with mouth finale.

What anal sex actually is

Anal sex means penetration of the anus – with the penis, a toy or fingers. Many nerve endings sit around the anus, which is why the area can be intensely stimulated, sometimes surprisingly strongly. At the same time it's more sensitive than other body parts: anyone who ignores that risks pain.

Anal sex isn't tied to any particular gender or constellation. Hetero couples, queer couples, solo experiments – everything is possible. What counts: both want it, both trust each other, no one is pressured.

Active or passive – who takes which role

Anal sex isn't the same constellation for everyone. On Gingr you'll find two variants as separate filters in the profile – and it's worth knowing which you're looking for in advance.

Anal sex passive: the escort is penetrated

The classic form most people picture when they say "anal sex": you penetrate the escort – with the penis, with fingers or a toy. In the profile this appears, depending on the labelling, as "Anal Sex" or explicitly as "Anal Sex (passive)."

Anal sex active: the escort penetrates you

Here the role flips: the escort takes over and penetrates you – with fingers or a toy. The appeal isn't only within a dominant-submissive dynamic but quite practical too. Via the prostate, men can be stimulated extremely intensely here; many experience their most intense orgasms this way. If you're specifically after the version with strap-on dildo (pegging), best filter directly by "Strap-on" – that takes you to ladies who have it actively in their programme.

Preparation and hygiene

Cleanliness

Hygiene is a topic with anal sex, not a taboo. A thorough external cleaning before the date is enough in most cases. Some additionally prefer an enema with clear, lukewarm water. It's not mandatory, but it gives many a sense of security.

Lubricant

Without lubricant, anal sex isn't going anywhere. The anus produces no moisture of its own, unlike the vagina. Anyone penetrating without lube creates friction – and friction hurts. In the worst case, small tears form in the mucous membrane. Water-based lube works best, especially together with condoms. Better to add some too often than too rarely.

Tips for beginners

The most important tip of all: don't rush. Anyone trying anal sex for the first time should take much more time than they think they need. If the body tenses up, that means: not yet there. Breathe deeply, relax, don't push.

Starting small makes sense – with a finger, a slim toy or as preparation with rimming, a practice that for many relaxes the muscles and creates appetite for more. One rule isn't negotiable: the receiving person sets the pace. Stop means immediately stop.

Safer sex with anal sex

The risk of catching an STI is higher with anal sex than with vaginal sex. The mucous membrane in the anus is thinner and tears more easily, pathogens enter the body faster. Condoms are therefore a clear recommendation – especially with people you haven't known long.

After anal intercourse: clean penis or toy thoroughly before continuing elsewhere. Intestinal bacteria have no place in the vagina or mouth – not even in between.

A2M – anal sex with mouth finale

One of the most intense service combinations around anal sex is A2M (short for "Ass to Mouth"): first anal sex, then the climax in the mouth. Also known as "anal sex followed by cum in the mouth" or "A-Level with CIM."

This variant is clearly marked and not a given. It demands devotion, composure and a clean process. Standard is: condom for the anal part, then take it off and clean, new condom or without (depending on agreement) for the oral finale. A direct switch from anal to oral without changing the condom is medically delicate and isn't usually offered by professional escorts – anyone seeking A2M should understand the hygienic switch as part of the practice.

The appeal lies in the contrast: first the depth and tightness, then the intimate finale in the mouth. Each on its own is intense – together it becomes an experience many men describe as the high point of an entire date series. Order is negotiable: first mouth, then anal is hygienically unproblematic and for many the natural variant. First anal, then mouth (classic A2M) is the hotter, more demanding form. Both are usually charged as a surcharge on top of the standard rate. Conditions are stated in the profile or arranged directly with the escort.

Related services

There are dedicated service pages for strap-on (pegging with strap-on dildo), fisting and rimming – each with its own preparation, conditions and experience level.

Finding anal sex escorts across Switzerland

On Gingr you can see directly in the profile which escorts offer anal sex – and in which variant. Use the filter function to find ladies in Zurich, Bern, Basel, Geneva, Lausanne, Lucerne, St. Gallen or Ticino. Talk openly about your experience and wishes beforehand; a professional escort will adjust accordingly.

Frequently asked questions about anal sex

Is anal sex painful?

Not when done right. Enough lube, slow tempo, relaxation – then it shouldn't hurt. Pain is a warning signal: ease off, take a break.

What's the difference between active and passive anal sex?

Passive means: the escort is penetrated (by you, with penis, finger or toy). Active means: the escort penetrates you – with finger or toy. For the variant with strap-on dildo (pegging) there's the dedicated filter "Strap-on" in addition.

How do I prepare for anal sex?

Wash externally, have lube ready, keep condoms within reach. Anyone who wants to does an enema – but doesn't have to. Fingers or a small toy work for getting started.

Do many escorts on Gingr offer anal sex?

A good number do, but not all. Filter specifically by "Anal Sex (passive)" or "Anal Sex (active)" – and additionally, if relevant, by special variants like A2M, Strap-on or Fisting.

How safe is anal sex?

With condom and preparation it's well manageable. Without condom the infection risk is higher than for most other practices. Safer sex pays off here in particular.