Dildo Play

Sex toys make an escort date different. Not better or worse – different. A vibrator hits spots that fingers can't reach as precisely. A plug adds a sensation that wasn't there before. Bringing toys into play simply expands the possibilities. On Gingr you'll find escorts across Switzerland who deliberately keep dildo play in their service repertoire.

What dildo play is about

Dildo play is the umbrella term for partner sex with toys used during the date – hand-guided, inserted, vibrating. Classic dildos, vibrators, anal plugs, love balls, double dildos: anything that can be used together falls under it.

Important distinction up front: strap-on is a separate service. Anyone looking for a harness-worn dildo with which the escort actively penetrates (pegging) finds that on the dedicated strap-on page. Dildo play means the whole other world of toys that aren't strapped on.

Which toys typically come into play

Dildos (hand-guided)

A dildo is a penetration toy. Most are modelled on a penis, but there are also curved models for the G-spot, double-ended variants for two people at once, and abstract shapes that no longer have much in common with any body part. In the date, the dildo is used hand-guided – by the escort, by the client, or alternating. Material of choice: body-safe silicone.

Vibrators

Vibrators produce vibrations in different intensities and frequencies. Clitoral vibrators work from the outside, G-spot vibrators from the inside. Prostate vibrators are designed for male anatomy and produce a sensation many had never known before. A vibrator during oral sex adds a layer many describe as very intense.

Anal plugs

Anal plugs are inserted and stay in while sex continues elsewhere. They stretch slowly and create a sustained sense of fullness. Some use them as preparation for anal sex, others simply enjoy the sensation. One point that's not up for discussion: only use plugs with a wide base – plugs without a base can disappear into the body, which ends in the emergency room.

Love balls

Love balls are worn vaginally. With every movement, the balls inside swing slightly along, a subtle ongoing stimulation. In the escort context, they're particularly suitable as long foreplay: insert, start the date relaxed, and the stimulation builds on its own.

Bringing toys into the date

A short sentence usually suffices before they're used: what kind of stimulation? External, internal, anal? Who operates, who enjoys? Does the escort bring her own toys, or do you bring something? Many escorts have their own well-kept set with them and know exactly when which toy works well.

Dildo play combines well with other services: a vibrator during cunnilingus, a plug during vaginal sex, love balls as an opener during an erotic massage. The combinations are many – asking costs nothing.

Materials and hygiene

Not all toys are equally safe. Body-safe silicone, glass, stainless steel and aluminium are non-porous and can be cleaned thoroughly. Toys made of latex, PVC or cheap rubber can contain plasticisers and never get properly clean, because bacteria settle in the pores.

Before and after every use: warm water, mild soap. Silicone, glass and steel can also be boiled. A condom over the toy makes sense when the same toy is used at different body areas or with different people. Pros work this way as a matter of course – the topic usually doesn't even come up in the escort context.

Finding dildo play escorts across Switzerland

On Gingr you can filter by "Dildo Play" or "Toys" and immediately see which escorts in your region offer it – whether in Zurich, Bern, Basel, Geneva, Lausanne, Lucerne, St. Gallen or Ticino. Wishes about specific toys, stimulation and tempo are discussed directly with the escort.

Frequently asked questions about dildo play

What exactly is dildo play?

Partner sex with toys used during the date – hand-guided, inserted or worn – dildos, vibrators, plugs, love balls. Strap-on (harness-worn, actively penetrating) is a separate service with its own page.

What material is recommended for sex toys?

Body-safe silicone, glass, stainless steel or aluminium. Non-porous, easy to clean, skin-friendly. Stay away from cheap rubber or PVC.

Does the escort bring her own toys, or should I bring some?

Both is possible. Many escorts have their own set, kept clean and in good condition. If you'd like to use your own toys, mention that briefly in advance.

How are sex toys kept hygienically clean?

Wash after every use with warm water and mild soap. Silicone, glass and steel can be boiled. When the same toy is used at different body areas, put a condom over it.

Can dildo play be combined with other services?

Yes. Toys go well with massage, oral sex, anal sex or roleplay. Briefly discuss with the escort beforehand what makes sense within the booked time.